On January 11th, many students at SMU chose to come back before classes even started. The reason for ending their winter break a week early was sorority and fraternity recruitment. Since I wanted join a sorority myself, I have now experienced the intensity and sorrow that comes along with this process. Not only did a large number of women withdraw from the process as a whole, but a few students actually packed up and left the SMU community. It’s truly hard to watch girls that were so happy here first semester, leave just because they didn’t get the house their heart was set on. These emotions are so strong for many girls, that they quickly make a life changing decision to transfer schools.
I feel that students need to go through recruitment content with themselves, and know that it if it does not work out they still have so many other opportunities at college. There are alternatives if this experience turns negative. For example, SMU is still a great school that has many other things to offer besides Greek life. There are many clubs and organizations to be involved in and just because one experience doesn’t turn out they should try another. It is not a reflection on them but maybe an opportunity to explore other pursuits and friendships. It also seems that everyone forgets about fall rush. Why not stick it out for a semester and rush again next fall or spring rush? A disappointing recruitment should not be the end but maybe a beginning.
I completely agree with your standpoint. In fact, my roommate transferred and I know that she now regrets her emotion-driven decision. But, I would have been even more intrigued by your post if you had incorporated a link that went to a list of SMU's many clubs, activities, organizations etc. Otherwise, good opinion. Thanks!
ReplyDeleteLike Ciara, I completely agree with the blog post. I feel that all college students should give a college an entire year before packing up. The Greek system seems to be extremely popular but only 35 percent of females and 29 percent of males participate in Greek Life at SMU. (http://smu.edu/admission/faqs_student.asp#greek) I also believe that the students that wait another semester have a better opportunity to find the right house for them.
ReplyDeleteI would have to both agree and disagree with your post. I was not allowed to rush this year, so I know how those girls feel. It seems as though all of second semester is focused on Greek life, and for non-Greeks, there is less to do in the social scene. I believe that this is particularly bad for SMU because the school as a whole is so focused on Greek life. On the other hand, just because one is not in a Greek organization, doesn't mean they can't find other things to do. I believe that those that left the school are somewhat narrow minded, and shouldn't have let SMU Greek life affect them so much.
ReplyDeleteLeigh said it exactly right--the key is to be "content with yourself." I think this is an insecurity issue, and for some, identity depends on the right Greek letters. I've been here long enough to know that even some who were happily pledged decide the whole thing isn't what it's made out to be, and they kind of drop out after a year of it. There are lots of other things to move on to at SMU that are ways to develop your interests and friendships.
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